Advice

**Here's the link! ** [] **Here's the most common questions that many people ask me! **
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**1. I have been best friends with this girl since 3rd grade, and were both in high school now. We have been going on different paths, and I want to confront her how she has hurted my feelings. What is the best advice?** To be honest, don't confront her by texting. I have done that way before, and I did not like it because I was not sure if she was lying. You can easily lie on the texting, and she could have some help from her friends. If I was you, please call her on the phone and/or meet her at some resturant and you guys can work it out. Please tell her all the feelings you feel, don't hold back because it will be hard to move on.

**2**. **I try to be real as possible, but it seems that I have to be fake to get in. I want to show my true colors to my friends. What should I do?** First of all, those are not your friends. Why are you being fake with them? You need to move on, and find people that you can be real around. If you keep being fake, you will get depressed and will start questioning yourself. Please do this, move on with them, don't create drama. Just slowly tell them that you cannot hang out with them and make excuses. I done this before, and those girls don't care about me anymore and I love it!

**3**. **I am always busy and I never have the time to hang out with my friends. Now my friends thinks that I am ignoring them! What is your advice?** I love being busy! It keeps me happy and stay on tasks! However, if I can't hang out with my friends, I will text them. If I could not go to the party, I will text them during or after party and ask them how it is going. If I see that I have a free spot available, I text the one that I really want to see the most and have a party! Sometimes, I even go out to dinner. You want to be busy because when you go to an event, people will want to see you! It makes people wait and have more stuff to tell you! Just always stay in touch with them!

**4**. **I hang out with group of friends that my whole school hates. I really want to get out of the group and start my new repudiation but I cannot because I know that my friends will start rumors about me. I don't handle rumors very well!** Calm down! It is not the end of the world. Honestly, you should sit down with them and talk to them. I know it will be hard but you can do it! Just tell them that you want to start a new life, and tell them that you ruin your self esteem. You want to surprise them and leave them in shock because they know its true. I love leaving people in shock! Now, they won't spread rumors about you, but will tell other people, and the school will be on your side.

Never use the Facebook as a diary. I mean, Facebook is public no matter what. I think you should keep a diary and keep those feelings to yourself. If you want your friends back, I think you should call them up and take the first step, which is to say that you are sorry. I am sure your friends will understand however, the people that you hurt the feelings, talk to them, and make a new friendships with them.
 * 5. I posted something really nasty on Facebook, and I have lost some of my friends because of that post. The post was about how I feel about everyone in the school. **